ok. theres no appiphany when you become a mom, you discovered the secret. Im a mom of 3 yr old twins and lemme tell you it was a big adjustment. My babies cried alot, mostly from gas bubbles in their tummy, they wanted to be held alot, sometimes still do, and yes they were totally dependant> I remembered wondering where the hell am I going to find time for myself. It does but it doesnt get any easier. As one stage ends another takes its place, you learn to adjust, and you will, it just takes time.

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