I was in a similar boat to the point where it was impacting my money and I was ready to walk. My husband was sick to the point where he was being controled by a 17 year old and his ex-wife.

We went to a good marriage counselor who helped us sort through everything and then made a financial plan and goal sheet with the help of our local clergy. I had to give a little and he had to give a little- it can only work if he is willing to see this as a problem.

Last edited by Heather9999; 04/09/08 04:40 PM.