If you wonder if you are wrong somehow for thinking this "feels weird"..well, you are NOT! You feel what you feel and that is what you are totally entitled to do...would I "feel weird" hell yeah..would I be POed?? Hell yeah! would he hear about it..You guess? This is wayyyyy to convoluted for my taste---telling you it is happening does not in any way make it "Feel" any differently. Why should that change how you feel? Clearly her staying with him is NOT necessary and even if nothing happens...how would he feel if some guy was staying alone with you while he was elsewhere?? sheesh..