I finally realized that for me to really rest <img src="/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> I have to get away for a short time. I have started doing that by taking long weekends once a month. It is never far and just Friday, Saturday and home Sunday afternoon,but it really does help me. Maybe now that I am retired <img src="/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I won't need that.