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#403069 - 04/05/08 06:17 PM
Re: Home Staging Business
[Re: Jilly]
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Zebra
Registered: 02/18/05
Posts: 3053
Loc: Memphis, TN
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Involvaholic! Love it! I totally get you--I'm a bit the same way, wanting to do so much.
Here's an exercise for you:
List all the things you do and all the things you'd like to do on a sheet of paper.
Assign each a "time" value--how much time does it take each day (or week) to have that in your life?
Then, determine how much time you have available. To do it on a weekly basis, there are 168 hours in a week. Deduct sleeping time--56 hours a week if you're at 8 hours a night, upkeep time (this is everything you do to maintain yourself & your stuff--bathing, laundry, meals, cleaning, shopping, repairs & maintenance, etc.) let's use 4 hours a day for 28 hours a week.
Wow, that works out to half your time--84 hours.
Now, suppose you work a job 40 hours a week. That leaves 44. With commuting and the lunch hour, let's say another hour a day--37 hours a week left.
Add in your "habits"--reading an hour a day, watching six hours of TV a day (I think that's the national average--seems like way too much to me), working out, playing with your dog, gardening, talking on the phone, surfing the web.
Then, deduct your weekly activites--two hours at church, an hour-long Board Meeting, and so on.
Most of us are in a deficit already before we even get to our "want to do list!"
Once you really look at where your time is going, you can then make better decisions about what to take off your plate so you can fit more of your passions on there.
Sometimes, it's just rearranging or better managing your time--I usually hate "multi-tasking", but sometimes, you can do two things at once--like exercising while you watch a favorite TV program, or learning Italian by listening to audiobooks during your commute, or listening to music while you clean, or reading in a bubble bath!
Sometimes it's realizing that while you may love to shop, you could do so much more in the times you spend browsing and decide to cut your trips to the stores in half.
Sometimes, it's cutting down on some activities in order to pursue others you like better.
Sometimes, it's mixing them up--one week, I'll paint, the next week I'll make earrings. Both are creative outlets that I love, so to have them both, I'll alternate. (I do this with several hobbies, actually.)
Budgeting your time is much the same as budgeting your money--only you can make more money. Making more time--not so easy, so you have to be even more "greedy" with it and spend it more thoughtfully.
With all that being said, I'm a "dabbler" myself, with many interests and so I've learned that I can dabble without full-on life-changing committment. I like forensic science, so I watch TV shows on it, read books about it, even write about it. I don't have to go back to school and become a forensic scientist to pursue the interest in the field.
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