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#274321 - 10/10/06 04:28 AM HELP ! I need a whole new look..
Authentic_life_coach Offline

Registered: 06/18/06
Posts: 13
Loc: New Zealand
Hi beautiful women.

I have spent a long time, and still am working on my inner self. I am now finding that even though the outer world doesnt matter I want to be happy and authentic in what I look like, (which has been neglected for a very long time) and now that I am coming out to grasp a new me and a new look I am feeling lost and do not know where to start? Does anyone have any advice or help for where I should start???
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#274322 - 10/10/06 06:46 AM Re: HELP ! I need a whole new look..
Laurie PK Offline

Registered: 09/11/06
Posts: 311
Loc: Vancouver, Canada
Inner beauty is important, and so is outer -- and they definitely influence one another.

I wrote on exactly this topic: How to Enhance What You've Got http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art20739.asp

This may be a good starting point for you!
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#274323 - 10/10/06 05:07 PM Re: HELP ! I need a whole new look..
elle Offline

Registered: 10/11/05
Posts: 2966
Loc: Melbourne, Australia
You could have a lot of fun with this by experimenting with many different looks over a period of time - and decide which brings out the "best" part of you. What are you wearing when you feel at your sexiest, most confident, most vibrant...

Another way is to grab some magazines - not too old because you don't want to be too out of date, unless you're going vintage... page through them and tear out any images of anything that grabs your attention and imagination. Most of this will be pictures of clothing, but you might also find yourself attracted to pictures of interiors, travel and nature pictures, pictures of make-up (like nail varnish colours) and hair colours or styles. Lay all these pages out and see if you can find a pattern that seems to indicate where your tastes are heading now. You might find something really obvious like the new hairstyle you want, and you can take it to the hairdresser to copy - or you might only see the colour scheme that is "talking" to you right now.

Any small clue is worth listening to. Have some fun with yourself! <img src="/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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#274324 - 11/10/06 06:09 AM Re: HELP ! I need a whole new look..
kimmymoran Offline

Registered: 11/10/06
Posts: 11
Give yourself an "Everyday Makeover." Start with Hair or Makeup one day and experiement with certain styles and products that work for you!

Get a mental image of a realistic new "beautiful" you and concentrate on how to go about getting that appearance.

New Makeup and Hair Products can do wonder's of building self esteem and creating ideas for new changes! <img src="/images/graemlins/queen.gif" alt="" />

Good luck!

#274325 - 11/10/06 01:33 PM Re: HELP ! I need a whole new look..
elle Offline

Registered: 10/11/05
Posts: 2966
Loc: Melbourne, Australia
I dyed my hair almost "Cherry" red yesterday... it's a lot of fun to have a whole new hair colour. Makes me feel completely different and energetic. I tend to change my hair colour according to the seasons.
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