These times are stressful because people make it stressful. Whether you want to celebrate one or a few or most or all of them just do not stress about it. It is completely insane how people force themselves to visit people they hate, to invite people they hate, to buy gifts and even go as far as renovate or and redecorate so that their house looks good for the people they probably do not even want in their home! Most people do all that then they wonder why they are in debt and are stressed!