I'm a female and I've been in a relationship with this girl for almost 2 years. It has been amazing, we went through so much crazy stuff together and made it through. We both lost our jobs and for the past few months we've been fighting alot. Well this past weekend she just completely cut me off. Absolutely nothing. She said she can't take it anymore. I don't understand how she can just toss me out of her life so quickly. I've contacted mutual friends who don't really know whats happening. I spoke to her mom, who said she's completely done with me. I spoke to her sister, who said she still loves me and to give her time. I read in a couple of relationship books, that the longer we go without talking the worse it will be. The first day, I did blow up her phone to try to get in touch. She didn't respond. I have no idea how she feels but I am absolutely broken. I can't eat, can't sleep. I tried to focus on me - college, joined the gym, dance classes...but I can't get my mind to concentrate. I spoke to her mom and sister because they contacted me first. The major issues in our relationship were the fact that neither of us have a job so we were spending 24/7 together. I moved out to put a stop to some of the fighting but I guess it didn't help. She still has alot of my stuff, she didn't ask me to come get it. I still pay for internet at her house, which I left because I know she needs it for job hunting. She hasn't deleted me off Facebook and she doesn't delete my posts. Its been about 3 days since I contacted her and I plan on waiting for about another week. Is this a good idea?

Sounds like you both need space. Fighting constantly is not healthy in any relationship. You did the right thing by moving out. If it were me I'd give her a week and see if she reaches out. Then I would call. If she still doesn't respond, give it another week - then you should get your stuff back. You don't need to pay for her Internet either. Being unemployed is very stressful for anyone, but when both are unemployed - it can really blow up. It sounds like you would be better served by focusing on your own life and employment right now, and putting her on the back burner. If it's meant to be she'll return, otherwise you can move on and find someone even better. Good luck. I know it hurts, but it does get better.