Dealing with a Family Member's Bad Vibes - 03/24/09 02:54 AM
I recently spoke to a dear friend of mine who has a situation that I'm fairly certain, especially in this forum, many of us can relate to, "close knit family vibes."
I thought anyone who has tackled such an issue may be able to offer some helpful advice.
What do you do when, someone in the family brings home an acquaintance, you've personally sorted through every possible physical, mental and spiritual issue of your own, but still come up with, "Boy, does this person have some bad vibes"?
In this particular case, the daughter has a male friend that the mother who is very intuned with her sensitivities has a reaction to each and every time the person comes to the house. He sends spine-chilling sensations, even physical nausea when he enters the home. He hasn't done or said anything rude, but she can't shake the vibes.
I have a daughter myself, and I can attest, the more you say something negative about someone or something they feel is on the up and up, the more they almost feel compelled to defend it.
I'm thinking speak with the daughter, gently about what is being sensed or give an example she could relate to, like, "Remember when I felt...I couldn't put my finger on what it was?" or even ask, "You know how sometimes you just sense a storm is coming, but there isn't a cloud in the sky?" and go from there. I think a lot will depend on how receptive the daughter is. But I think waiting, when something is that strong could have you wishing you had said something.
I know it is one of the main issues I deal with when speaking with people who have psychic abilities, sensing things about their loved ones.
I'm personaly dealing with a similar situation with my husban'ds mom. I will feel and get pictures - flashes of things pertaining to her three months away and will be able to pin it down to when and where it's going to happen, down to a couple of days. It's very disturbing and causes strain as I try to keep physical distance to curb the feelings. Sadly, it's not working. I still get the information anyway.
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Elleise
Clairvoyance Editor
Spring Consultation Specials
I thought anyone who has tackled such an issue may be able to offer some helpful advice.
What do you do when, someone in the family brings home an acquaintance, you've personally sorted through every possible physical, mental and spiritual issue of your own, but still come up with, "Boy, does this person have some bad vibes"?
In this particular case, the daughter has a male friend that the mother who is very intuned with her sensitivities has a reaction to each and every time the person comes to the house. He sends spine-chilling sensations, even physical nausea when he enters the home. He hasn't done or said anything rude, but she can't shake the vibes.
I have a daughter myself, and I can attest, the more you say something negative about someone or something they feel is on the up and up, the more they almost feel compelled to defend it.
I'm thinking speak with the daughter, gently about what is being sensed or give an example she could relate to, like, "Remember when I felt...I couldn't put my finger on what it was?" or even ask, "You know how sometimes you just sense a storm is coming, but there isn't a cloud in the sky?" and go from there. I think a lot will depend on how receptive the daughter is. But I think waiting, when something is that strong could have you wishing you had said something.
I know it is one of the main issues I deal with when speaking with people who have psychic abilities, sensing things about their loved ones.
I'm personaly dealing with a similar situation with my husban'ds mom. I will feel and get pictures - flashes of things pertaining to her three months away and will be able to pin it down to when and where it's going to happen, down to a couple of days. It's very disturbing and causes strain as I try to keep physical distance to curb the feelings. Sadly, it's not working. I still get the information anyway.
________________________________
Elleise
Clairvoyance Editor
Spring Consultation Specials