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Posted By: anamcara Heightened Sensitivity and Negativity - 03/23/09 09:39 PM
Hi Elleise and All,

Has anyone recently become excuriatingly sensitive to negativity?

Over the past few weeks I've become extremely sensitive to negative people and environments, it is weighing me down and my normal routine clearings have not had any effect on them whatsoever.

This negatively is engulphing and I've been feeling heavy (like I am carrying a weight around with me) tired and totally drained all the time, but not emotionally drained, physically drained.

Maybe I am just too intune with the world right now.

Any suggestions for this time, has anyone changed up their protections or clearings?

Hi Anna,

I've been running through similar situations. It's gotten to the point where, I'm sensing things, telling my husband - there really isn't anyone else to tell and they happen 99% of the time and it is mostly negative and it has to do with people, actions, headlines, etc. It's been wiping me out here these past few months. I've even post-poned my classes here, trying to recoop.

It's definately something where I can tell the difference between a personal stress and something outside of me.

Unless, you are trying to get to the bottom of something and need the sensations for clarification, you may need to "change your channel."

For me, I may play a video game, cook an ethnic recipe, garden, block the thoughts or picture with a white blintzing shield, etc. But, at least for now those things have been temporary at best.

I am counseling more and more people speaking of this, though. There is a great deal of dispair with the economy. That is part of it. When there is such unbalance, it is a bit like skinning your knee. It's almost a raw sensation, sensitive to the touch.

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Posted By: anamcara Re: Heightened Sensitivity and Negativity - 03/25/09 01:31 AM

Thank you for responding Elleise,today is better. Sometime's I feel like I've been beat up and getting any kind of normal restful sleep has been elusive for quite some time now.

So much is falling away and there is more to come, all I get is this sense that there is much more that will fall.

Thank you again for responding, I will continue to look for other ways to shield myself and try to keep seeing the positive even in negative situations.



Anna,

I wanted to offer, that there is something to the falling away that is obscured. Meaning, there is something in there that points you in the direction of something making a name for yourself.

I forgot to post that a few weeks ago. Seems like business runs in cycles. Either I'm completely free or so busy it's hard to come up for air.

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I think even those of us who are not in any way clairvoyant have been feeling the general sense of negativity around at the moment. I think all we can do in this very stressful time what with the recession and all the things in the news which are upsetting for everyone, is to take things as they come and do the best we can.
I agree -

I also, though, I'm not sure how well this will go over on line here, but - lol, oh, well....

With the economy doing what it is, I've taken a different approach in the neighborhood and by golly it's working, truthfully. I act pretty much like Marry Poppins or what's that line in Sixth sense - "Happy like Julie Andrews spinning on a mountain top like a crazy person, happy."

Instead of hoarding every penny I have, if someone has something their doing out of their home and it is something that my life or circumstances can benefit from, I part with that $10 - $25.00.

A neighbor will give me a lift when I'm at the house and in return I'll take some hamburger, onions or beans and chicken broth and turn it into meals for their week.

The energy is mulitiplying. Faces are coming out, knocking on the door asking if I need anything. At night when I burn trash, people come out and look at the stars. Before long there is 3 or 4 people pulling up chairs and sharing stories we wouldn't have otherwise.

clairvoyant or not, we're all SPIRIT first. I think when the physical around us begins coming and going, we begin to remember, it's never really been black and white - no solid answers and nothing is supposed to stay the same. In there there is a grandiosity of beauty within the uncertainty smile

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Posted By: anamcara Re: Heightened Sensitivity and Negativity - 03/28/09 12:06 AM
Hi Elleise,

O my gosh, that's exactly what I have been doing, if someone needs that 25.00 I give it freely. I've always done this and I am not going to change, I won't hord as so many people seem to be doing.

I do not feel that is the point of all that we're going through. As things fall away we will need one another, those willing to give now, help other's where and when they can (not going overboard, but if you have it, then give it, if you have the resource to help, (in whatever form you can, then do it. Everyone will be much better off in the long run.

More than ever now I keep seeing small groups of people relying on one another, perhaps this is community rebuilding?, like we've not seen in the past and people don't even realize this is happening until much later, many many years...

I wish I could tell you the time frame, but I cannot.


What I'm seeing is virtually exactly that!

Yes, if someone is starting a business or providing a service from the home, I'm going to buy those ( I grow my own, but) potatoes or tomatoes and part with my money - not see if I can get a free whatever. I also swap, so, I'll make and sell dinners or pizzas (really nice ones) the proportions are restaurant quality and taste better than store bought. It's a networking that is just spiraling. Word is getting out and soon I will be providing pizzas to a company's 2nd shift here in the next few weeks. I'm taking orders now.

This along with consulting and being on the road is a life that is what it should be. Communities are starting to come together.

I will go as far to say that envision how Native Americans build and work together, respecting the Earth and their resources. This is what will be, is to come. It's in the process, now.

You'll have the groups out there that want or feel entitled to having this and that paid for, and for a time there will be a little bit of shifting, but the money runs out. If they don't know how to do it by then, it will be worse than anything we see now.

The elderly will actually be more prepared than the generations who expect this or that or who are still angry and feel they haven't gotten all they feel they have yet to get from the gov.

It's absolutely not too late. By all means, as you are showing by great example how, start now smile Be of those jump starting this cycle.

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Posted By: anamcara Re: Heightened Sensitivity and Negativity - 03/28/09 11:39 AM
Hi Elleise,

You said "Meaning, there is something in there that points you in the direction of something making a name for yourself."

Very interesting you said this at this time, atleast in my life and I hope it tranfers to other's lives as well.

Recently we had a huge shake up at work, the Director was fired because of many reason's the main one being that she really should not have been in the position she was in in the first place, she just did not have the qualifications.

However, because of her lack of knowledge in a certain area of her position the organization is having to write-off megga amounts of money that was never collected.

The parent organization hired an Administrative Director recently and he is charged with making sure all monies are collected, changing policies, etc.

There was an Office Manager I worked with who decided to take a position with the parent organization, she has been talking me up with the people at the parent organization as well as with the new Administrative Director.

For such a long time I felt I was invisible in this organization, no matter what was going on I did my job, I went to work and was conscienscious about the work I was doing, no matter what else was happening, no matter how bad the energy got there (low moral), I still did my job to the best of my ability. I was always willing to jump in and help out when I could, I was aware of my limitations and said so.

I want to be in the environment, I do believe (for awhile anyway) this area is important to service people with mental illness who cannot afford services elsewhere (we are nonprofit, we don't and won't make a profit off people), on the other hand, we cannot continue business as usual, you just cannot run a business on huge deficits.

Anyway, long story short, the new Admin Director wants me to take over the billing area (I'm just an administrative assistant and am parttime).

So, I suppose in a way the fact that I stuck with it, continued to do my job in a consciencious manner (showed up for work, understood what I was doing and did not become a part of the problem), is paying off.

They've offered me a higher level job in management, one that I can do and is in alignment with my abilities.

However, since nothing is in writing and I've not been officially offered the position I have told the Admin Director "no pay increase, no position increase, I don't take on the work". Why would I take on more work with the same pay or title? He was understanding.

Anyway, your sentence jumped out at me when I read it, lol.

Anna


Elleise, your reference to Native American communities is dead on. If you think back, this return to smaller core communities has been on it's way for some time.

Cottage industies, aka home-based businesses, along with telecommuting have been increasing for a decade or so. Community gardens, popular in the late 60's and 70's and with communes are spreading. We have several in our area.

Many of us are aware that at some point we will be relying on ourselves, neighbors and friends, not the government. Bartering is something I've been doing for years, even when I was in business. I can't tell you how many tax returns I did for items and services, and included it in my accounting.

You've stated this before and it bears repeating. Those who haven't figured this out and still relying on the government will be hurting the worst when things get bad. We need to meet our neighbors, develop friendships and network as extensively as we can.
Icp -

You have no idea how much and how far those words travel.

Ironically, it is the Native Americans, as far as what I sense and infiltrates my Soul that can hold true title to what it was that was taken. I have no historical reference, but my essence drives me to say these words that the lands are the Native american Indian's rightful owners.

Many of us have historically painful histories. They are no doubt painful and difficult to reflect on. Specifically though, with this, it is as if the circle comes back around. Like a "birdie in the hole" I think that's a golf term.

There are people and groups that complain or focus on the past and what happened to them, there are groups that have made the most in spite of their set backs. This energy, specifically seems to go back to a time and place where what was cared for and tended to and confiscated goes back "Universally", like a tide to shore and all look, not only, to these past ways but the rightful owners and LEADERSHIP. It is specifically the native american indian for this role. Money comes flooding in. There is no violence, demanding, scene making, etc. people of whole heart and will want and come driving in.

I will go as far to say that, if there were the means to begin reaching the people now, through technology, by all means now is the crescendo - the intially rising of entry. If it were a stock, I would say invest - your return will grow by at least 75%.

I don't know much about indian reservations. I don't know if it's feasable, technologically speaking, but do feel with help they could and will achieve this. But this is the "rising up" that I sense. The energy I had to wait a while to put my finger on the word or group that was coming through.

There comes a time of gov't and economical dismantling and this will be the equivelent of the universal red carpet. We'll just now begin filling the seats.

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Elleise
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Based on what little I know, the larger reservations are progressing, but at a very slow pace. By progressing, I'm referring to technology and the effective use of what little resources they have. You have to remember, reservations were set up on the "crappiest" land in the country. When valuable resources were discovered, government and leaseholders swooped in to benefit.

At one point, the BIA (Bureau of Indian Affairs)had "misplaced" several millions in land use funds that should have been distributed to several tribes.

What most don't realize is there are numerous small pockets and communities of Native Americans through-out our country. I belong to one and live near another. While we may not have land or language, we do have some knowledge and survival skills, which is why we're still around.

My sense is these small local groups will be setting the example, sharing the knowledge, when things get bad. These small groups are another resource, possibly local, we need to be investigating, establishing relationships and networking with.

There's a ton of survival skill knowledge on the internet. But there may be more "relevant to your area" knowledge, nearby within a local Native American community or association.

The easiest way to network and learn is to attend local gatherings and pow-wows. They are not only loads of fun, but very informative. The Cherokee of St George, GA are having their Spring Pow-Wow this weekend and we're taking the RV down to the Tribal Grounds this afternoon. We've got flooding all around, but it will be clearing up Friday and Saturday.

I can't wait to hear the drum! You don't have to be of Native blood for it's positive affect.
Posted By: luvmycat07 Re: Heightened Sensitivity and Negativity - 04/02/09 10:22 PM
I felt this way a couple of days ago. It was a very strange experience and I just felt very heavy, especially in my head. Sure enough, some trouble came about the next day. Does anyone ever have bad headaches the day or so before that doensn't go away until the the negativeness is gone? Wondering if it is just me.
I'm certain you're not the only one. I also get bad headaches and pressure when dealing with negative people in particular. I can generally remove myself from a negative situation or, if stuck, shield myself.

A continual heaviness in my shoulders, which leads to a stiff neck and headache has, in the past, precipitated mainly terror attacks, but sometimes plane crashes. The heaviness would come on gradually, but intensify and remain until the event occurred. This could be from 4 to 6 months on average.

I say "in the past" as it abruptly stopped around May 2000. Thankfully, I was spared prior to the events of Sept 11th. However, the heaviness and gloom/doom sensations which always accompanied it, returned this past November. It has intensified and I'm back to the mental and physical exhaustion I experienced prior to Lockerbee and Oklahoma City. With those, I had some clues in dreams (both night and day). I'm keeping track of my dreams, but no clues yet. This might take a good bit longer.
Posted By: alda Re: Heightened Sensitivity and Negativity - 04/04/09 09:54 AM
Hi Eleise and all, I was wonedering the heavy feeling or mine i could explain the feeling its quite painfull and distracting throughout the day. When i go outdoors, i feel the sensation of negative energy that gives me a little uneasyness or scared. The pain at the back of my neck is most times extremely heavy. How can ease the pain and stop being so hypersensitive with the negative or maybe positive (yet i'm still in the verge of recognising whether it is positive or negative energy (feelings)). Still uncertain. So far i feel..if it brings me a feeling of butterfly in my stomach then i would be experiencing a positive energy and if i feel cold, neck pain or chilly feeling along my spine, scared, then it would be negative. Plaese let me know is this how i can learn to differ both energy. Thank you....! Just, Alda
Hi Alda,

It sounds to me like you are a Sensitive or Empath. These are people who react to stimuli outside of themselves such as, sound, traffic, crowds and emotions like a tuning fork.

If you haven't seen how a tuning fork works, it is all metal and has a handle with two long prongs protruding from it. The slightest tap makes it vibrate for what seems like forever if you have the patience to sit through one of it's cycles.

Empaths, especially when they are just beginning to realize they're different often try to drown out the sensations with drugs, alcohol or seclusion. It is literally painful for them to go outside of their personal environment (usually their room or home). They often tend to be diagnosed with agoraphobia (fear of crowds)...

I don't care for psychological labels, because they stick with the person and taint a great deal of life's experiences. So, someone with a gift such as yours can end up feeling there is something wrong or deficient within them instead of realizing just how amazing such a healing gift among other things can be.

Often empaths make wonderful counselors, directors, artists and cooks. They can smell and sense things a great deal of the more desensitized public can't.

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Posted By: alda Re: Heightened Sensitivity and Negativity - 04/13/09 08:06 PM
Hi Elleise, Thank you for replying. Very glad. You do have a great deal and amazing knowledge and answers to my thoughts! At this point of time i feel that i am slowly finding myself here. =) Question ya. =) From the post above, when you mentioned "I don't care for psychological labels, because they stick with the person and taint a great deal of life's experiences.", what do you mean? I want to understand. THank You again Elleise!
Hi Alda,

I'm so very glad you're here and are feeling welcome & comfortable. I know when I found people such as myself when i was first starting out I found a great deal of relief. We could almost finish eachother's sentences with what we experienced and how we dealt with it.

What I meant by I don't care or like psychological labling is that virtually every person I have met with developed sensitivities (in the beginning) wanted very much to shut them off or felt they were going crazy. So, they would take a trip to a psychiatrist to be analyzed by a doctor. They felt very much as if they weren't meant to be here. They weren't like everyone else. They hoped for medication that would make it go away or would just opt to drink alcohol or go into seclusion to drown out the experiences because they were so painful.

I am speaking specifically of clairvoyant, Empath, medium, psychic experiences. There are medical conditions when counseling and medication offer help but in the cases I am speaking of, the people knew they could "feel" other people's emotions, or would have precognitive experiences that just made them feel crazy, especially when the visions and dreams began coming true regularily. It seems it starts out random and then increases. Sadly a couple of individuals didn't want to even live anymore. They felt what was the use when all they became was tired from feeling all of the horrors and negativity in the world and there was nothing often that they could do.

There's a joke or saying actually, a lot of us say, "I don't know if what I have is a gift or a curse. I guess it depends on what day of the week it is." Many people inititially feel it is a curse and with training, balance and meditation find a place to utilize their sensitivities and see what a wonderful gift it is to have it - honestly I've had a few people angry at God for having abilities who end up saying they could never, not ever or even want to ever live life without them. They find a truce both they and the gifts they have can live by wink

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Posted By: alda Re: Heightened Sensitivity and Negativity - 04/19/09 08:19 AM
Hi Elleise, I have been trying to make sense of all the feelings that only the souls of the people from this site can understand. You cannot believe how i suddenly felt the existance of my body on this world. That my body is here, but something is always still wrong? I have been guessing that my soul is gone..And i can feel that someone else is looking at me all the time. It's me. Is this a sane situation? i mean..seriously..i always admit that i am crazy..and i funny way, it makes me feel better..hehe.. I just registered in this website called the empath community..it felt like a home to me..=) One thing i have changed..i have been staying indoor more than usual..i enjoy it..i enjoy solitude..i feel safe..but my boyfriend thinks its not healthy..its hard to make him understand all this..anyways just to let you know that u have save my life..thank you again.. Love & Peace, Alda
Hi Alda,

You know, one of the most frequent questions I have recieved by Empaths, Sensitives, Spiritual healers, etc. is, "Why does it take so long to meet up with other people like this? It seems like it takes so long, but when you meet one, you know it."

It always came to me that the reason for this is that these types of individuals are scattered like seeds across different lands and countries because if they weren't, they would never ever leave their spiritual community. They would congregate and discuss which is what they did in the spirit world but came here in order to aid and bring balance.

Of course I can't prove this, but the feeling I'm getting through dreams and visions and mostly sensations (daily) is that what we are experiencing now in this world at this time is almost a recreation of how other "lost civilizations" fell. We haven't learned. When there isn't balance between spirituality and technology - the later begins trying to play God basically and falls. People such as yourself are emploring spiritual balance and it can feel painful - almost like being homesick. It was out of love though you came to aid mankind - save it in whatever way you can, just one soul at a time even to try and prevent a similar fate of past cultures.

All of this may sound off the wall, but I had started to piece together dreams, some 15-20 years ago with names of places I've never heard of and the dreams themselves. There was chaos, advanced technology, tyrant gov't, ego, and natural disasters working against them.

Because they acted out of greed and ego for the most part, their civilizations were lost as they couldn't handle the disarray the earthquakes, great waves and vulcanos brought upon the people. They also used natural forces as well - crystals and magnetics, etc.

The civilizations that keeps coming up in the dreams are off the East coast. They are no longer visible though - almost like islands. In one of the dreams they showed me Gibraltor. Ii'm not sure why, but it also has to do with the location.

You know Alda, you save us right back by showing us there are even more spiritual solidies coming into the planes to relieve us of our duty when the times come, lol. Someday you will help someone, just like yourself coming to relieve you smile

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