Do you hate to argue? Do you and your spouse avoid conflict? If so, you may be missing out on the best way to keep your relationship passionate. A healthy fight, done right, will leave you feeling closer and more passionate. Learn the skills that are necessary to fight right.

I hate to fight. But my husband and I fight a lot. And you know what? Our relationship IS passionate.

We are honest with our true feelings and can let them all out. That feels cleansing and liberating! There's no mediocre middle ground with us. I love him, I hate him. He's all my bests in life. Best friend, best confidante, best playmate, best lover, etc.

Life is crazy with us, but there's never a dull moment...

Hi Lori, it sounds like you're doing it right! It's a good feeling when you know that your partner truly knows the real you, and loves the real you. And that can only happen if you're honest and open with your feelings. Have a wonderful Valentine's Day!