I am asking behave of someone who she is my friend but not much it friendly

I'm not sure what you are asking, Rina09.

Caring for yourself and your family is one of the challenges of motherhood. It sounds like you are asking how your friend can take care of herself while also taking care of her family. Yes?

Are you saying that your friend is not friendly? Meaning she is overwhelmed and not always treating others kindly - including her family? An overwhelmed mom needs to build a support network.

Let us know what you are asking here - I'm sure other moms would be willing to chime in.