Lisa,
Thank you for the happy birthday!
I know they will never change. I just hope they can be easier to live with (like they were before moving in 2009) so that I can get more money at the very least. Going back to school would certainly be the best option instead of the traveling since they cannot be trusted (will count my money once in a while in case 1 or 2 finds 1 of the 2 keys of the safe).
Now that I have that big amount of money moving out does not stress me anymore (only the part of never seeing them again did not stress me before).
They started a few days ago talking out loud where I am to go travel where we used to live, this is just to make me angry and sad since this is what I was asking of them when I offered them money to do that. I am actually shocked right now because they did not used my money as a birthday gift (it was a card that comes with a bookmark). I have not come face to face with them yet so I do not know how they are today.
We are living in an excellent place that has a good vibe (house and surroundings); it is just a shame that it is with them that it has to be, without that it would be a perfect place to live where I know I could be happy.