BellaOnline Forums Relationships Marriage Happy Valentine's Day!

If you're experiencing marital problems, use this day to help build a new bridge. The original intent of Valentine's Day is to initiate conversation between separated lovers.

Remember what it was like when you first got together. The man/woman you married is still inside. Coax him/her out with love.

Long-time married couples assume that the other knows he/she is loved. Act like young lovers all over again.

Write a love note to the one you married.

If your marriage is strong, then you won't need any prompting to celebrate this day. Just remember: It's all about feelings. So do something to make your mate feel good.

Laughter, relaxation, thrills. Whatever it is, use this day to reaffirm that you care how he/she feels and you want him/her to feel good.