Dear Kate,
First the link did not work,not lucky.As far as relationships, falling in love ,like the expression goes,one gets attached ,
craves for tenderness,non solitude or companionship.
However,craving leads to dependance,then to interrogation,finally
to suffering.
I beleive the Universe will lead me to where it is good for me,
with the right people ,at the right time.
I got divorced 42 years ago,suffered a lot.In those 42 years I have had relationships with women for about a total of about 10 years always ending in suffering.So for me living alone,has become a way of life.I have suffered enough in my life.Now I live
a blissfull life.When people ask me:what do you do in life?
My answer is :i am on permanent holidays.Far from being rich,
I live within my means ,and enjoy reading ,which I used to dislike.
Life gives people choices!
with respect
loongdragon