My thought for the day: "Why does everyone near me act like twins? One minute, they're normal and friendly in front of others ; the next, so freaking mad and moody alone." -----Uggghh, I so hate hypocrites!!" >:(
Yes there seems to be an inbuilt thing that we e to are prone to be accepted so we pretend to be something we're not because being who we are is not good enough - according to our thoughts of ourselves. People become people pleasers at their own expense and then become resentful and feel taken for granted. It seems to me that it's easier to be who we are instead of trying to be something else.