BellaOnline Forums Beauty and Self Inspiration What does it take for you to feel serene?

I was talking about this with Lisa and she suggested i get a thread started about it so everyone can add how they feel when they are serene.

So, I want to feel
serene. What is it i feel serene with? What are the steps to get
there?

1 - I feel serene when i live in a place that is clean, bright and has
everything in it's place. Everything has a home in my home. I know
where everything is and i never have to wonder where something goes
when i am done with it. There is nothing extra - everything is in use
and in good repair. It is not too cold or too hot inside. I like
everything around me. My space feels welcoming, smells fresh, and is a
peaceful retreat.

2 - I feel serene when my work-for-income is being handled in an
efficient and timely way. I don't let work pile up behind me. I know
how to do each thing I am asked to do without having to strain to
remember or stress about finding my notes on each thing. I like being
competent at my work and recognized by others as such.

3 - I feel serene when it is sunny and I get the chance to be outside
in nature. I like feeling the sun on my face and moving my body easily
across streets, trails or paths. I like having a day when I can do
productive work, then close the laptop and get outside. I feel serene
exploring a new place and feeling adventurous. What is around the next
bend?

4 - I feel serene when i know i have friends/family who love me, and
that I love too, and that I can enjoy spending fun, relaxing time with
on a regular basis.

5 - I feel serene when i know i am taking good care of myself (and my
pets). When I take good care of my teeth, nutrition, hydration, skin,
hair, fitness and can take time to do yoga and meditate.

What about you guys? What makes you feel serene? And please chime in
with possible action plans for each thing for me, if you think of
anything.

Those are fantastic entries Jill - you have really been able to investigate what makes you happy!

I think for me the process of creating my priority lists, and then creating long term and then short term tasks lists on them, naturally pairs up with what makes me serene. The things on my priority list make me serene. The things on my tasks lists help to move me towards serenity.

So one of my tasks for today was to do some finalizing work that needed to be done to prepare for our Mused Winter Issue launch next week. That makes me feel really serene! I adore Mused and am so proud of it

Hi Jilly,

I think we have some in common

I feel serene when my home is clutter free. When my office space is clean, I'm more creative. When my bedroom is clean, I can relax easier. When the kitchen is clean, I enjoy spending time there creating meals. When my livingrooom is clean, I feel like my hubby and I can focus on each other and the family rather than getting the kids to pick up their stuff, or worrying about dusting or whatever.

I feel serene when I get things done on my to-do list. I don't make up that list just for kicks - I make it because I actually want to accomplish something. LOL.

I feel serene when I've eaten clean and fresh. My digestive system works easier and feels better, and I feel better about how I'm treating myself.

I feel serene when I spend time with my family.

I feel serene when I've walked the dog - I like to get outside and it makes me feel good knowing I've done something to improve my health.

I feel serene when I am in the moment. Being present and happy with what I have right in front of me in this very moment. The focus keeps you breathing slower and a stillness that is rare to find.

Lisa, Mused is outstanding and worth praising with great praise! I am happy working on it brings you serenity.

Deanna, i totally hear you about seeing things done on the to do lists. I don't make those up for kicks either!

Lorena, good point about being in the moment. I have a hard time with that one, unless I am in the sun relaxing or in the wilderness. Yoga helps me too.

I too am serene when I am in the moment. Not dwelling on the past or trying to predict the future. But right here and now. The moment is now.

I totally agree with you guys. Let me add this...I feel serene when my husband goes to work and leaving me in the house because when he is around things get topsy turvy. I feel serene when I am doing my to do list chores. And when I am serene I bake well and cook well.

I feel serene when I remember that it's okay for me to take a moment for myself. And this quote helps;

"Anything God has done, God can do." Eric Butterworth.

It reminds me that I don't need to stress that I may or may not get something done. All things are possible

Hi FlingWings-

I love family gatherings too. They create such a feeling of love and security. Remember, abundant meals can happen anytime. No need to wait for a holiday. Just celebrate the coming of spring or the departure of winter. You can even choose to just celebrate life.

Yvonnie

When I am in nature, when I listen to my favorite music and when I am completely into a movie or a book or a show or a sport event.