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#563724 - 11/11/09 08:08 AM Should You Change Your Look
Tara - Ethnic Beauty Offline

Registered: 02/06/05
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Should You Change Your Look

The other day I heard a woman tell another that she should change her hair. �You know,� the suggester said, �update your look.�

How would you deal with a suggestion of this sort? The Ethnic Beauty community would love to hear your family-friendly answers.
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#563767 - 11/11/09 02:39 PM Re: Should You Change Your Look [Re: Tara - Ethnic Beauty]
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I frequently change my look. To me hair is the easiest thing to change. Color, cut, style.

I think it all depends on the person. Sometimes you just need a little "refresh" and not a complete "style makeover/change".
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#563780 - 11/11/09 05:39 PM Re: Should You Change Your Look [Re: Lady J]
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Posts: 171

Thanks for the article. You are right, one should not be pressured into changing his/her appearance simply due to some odd suggestions by others.

I always think the most beautiful people are the ones with so much beauty, worth and self-confidence "inside". Our appearance should reflect our inner state.

On the other hand, if the person decides it's time to express their new self through drastic change of their outer appearance, I would say "right on!" I would cheer them on as I celebrate their growth!

#569628 - 12/08/09 05:18 AM Re: Should You Change Your Look [Re: Cara N.]
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Hi Cara, and Jase!

I happen to think you are both right. A person should only change if they want to. Then they should be applauded for having the courage to do so.

Thank you both for the great comments. Don't forget to check out this Wednesday's article.

Remember Ethnic Beauty fam, we love to hear from you!
Tara Logan-Hearn
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#569752 - 12/09/09 12:37 AM Re: Should You Change Your Look [Re: Tara - Ethnic Beauty]
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#891040 - 05/04/15 06:08 AM Re: Should You Change Your Look [Re: Tara - Ethnic Beauty]
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It would depend the way it was said to me. If it was said in a cruel or criticising manner that person would get it right back at them. I do not care about what you thing of me but when you personally attack me you will get it back (unless you are a troll then i will ignore you).


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