BellaOnline Forums Religion and Spirituality Tarot Help on interpreting this spread for me and my ex?

Okay, so I'm 17 years old and my ex is 15. Its a long story but we were childhood friends and each others first loves, or so he says. We stopped talking about five years ago and he left me but around a month ago he came back to me begging. I hesitated at first but then gave in and we were in a relationship for about three weeks. However, I know that his parents stopped it the first time around and they are protective. His parents are divorced and his mom lives across the street from my house. He used to live there, too, but moved to his dad's house in the city, so it was kind of like a long distance relationship but I could see him every Saturday for a short time. Three weeks into it, he just stopped talking to me - no texts, no calls, nothing. For the first few days I didn't contact him because I didn't want to come across as too needy, but then I texted him and called him like a couple of times between then and now and nothing. I haven't tried contacting him in a while, however. I just sort of let it go. But I just want to know what happened. He said that he had been in love with me and loved me this whole time but back when he was 11 he didn't realize it. I was in love with him, too. I just want to know what had happened so that I can confirm it and move on. So I did a spread for it: His feelings - The Tower. I see this as some change taking place in his feelings or him feeling like the world is coming to an end. I have also seen this as meaning sexually attracted to someone. My feelings - The Empress. Of course. I have very nurturing, mothering, caring, and loving feelings for him. Us Together - Four of Swords. I feel like this indicates retreating. I think it represents that we are nonexistent at the moment or taking a break. Like, taking a chill pill sort of deal. Maybe we are both reflecting on it and thinking a lot about it and whether its a good decision or not. We are both trying to step back from each other and think on our own to see what should happen next. And I looked at the past, present, and future for our relationship. Past - Three of Cups. I think this indicates all of the fun memories that we had in the past. Present - Six of Wands. I honestly am not sure what this means. Maybe it means one of us feels like we won Future - Ace of Wands. Maybe a new opportunity will come about. I also asked why he hasn't contacted me and got the Nine of Swords. I guess this indicates something that made him feel this way made him stop contacting me? How he feels about not contacting me - Five of Swords. Maybe he feels proud of it and is only thinking of himself. But seriously I'm not sure what this all means. It would be helpful if I got some other views on this. Thanks everyone! And btw, I'm new here!