Sandra,
Thanks for these great tips! Instinctually, I've been telling my husband the same thing for 3 yrs. now.
He's just now starting to get it. Before, it was more, "Mhmmm, ok...we'll get there at some point." This year, lol, it was like collar grabbing shirt, eyeball to eyeball contact and a,
"Listen to me closely. STAT, cash time! I don't care if it's $1.00, I don't care if it's nickles, dimes and quarters, but it's crunch-time and we need to start setting aside cash and deal w/the if's and when's another time!"
He got it after that