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Hi Debbie - I really like your combination of action and belief. I think we need both to have the best life.

Thanks for posting!

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That's fantastic Debbie!

Now you have to worry about your clothing and all that goes along with that as a newbie on a job! We all want to look great, which makes us (personally) feel great, but it only comes down to our personalities I think!

A lovely co-worker who I'd worked with for one year, found another job last week. She's been going to school studying accounting and now found a job in a bank!..she came in to visit today and ...even though I'm going to miss her, I told her that I was very, very happy for her!

Her face lit up! It made me feel good! That was the best part of my day. I felt good about MYSELF through someone else.

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Hi Allyson,

That is such a wonderful point. We never feel better about ourselves then when we are being nice to someone else

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Too true Nadine.

I DO feel good about myself sometimes, for instance, when I'm in a cleaning frenzy at home and the place looks spik and span! It seems like some kind of therapy. While I'm cleaning I think about things I don't get the chance to talk to people about and it's kind of a release of subconcious thoughts it seems. Then I feel uncluttered in my mind. THAT makes me feel good.

However, when I give kind words to someone (like the coworker aforementioned) or help a disabled person getting through a door etc. it's the reaction on their part of great thanks and appreciation that makes me feel GREAT!

So nowadays, I do it more often! smile

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Allyson......I am not worried about clothing to wear for my job because it is not an ultra fancy place and it is a retail position. I am sure I have what I need already here. In these times, we take what we can get to make ends meet, but I knew already I was overqualified for the job so that helped my confidence level.


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Hi Debbie,

Nice! I wish you all the luck! smile

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