Dear Connie,
Being a man ,a woman's man, women will never understand the way aman thinks.How often ,very often ,I will see a man look at another woman ,when he is sitting with his family in a restaurant,most at the time when I am looking at HIS wife.
In no way am I defending men here.How many times a beautiful woman ,of all ages,in front of her husband will smile at me.
So It goes both sides.
Loong