Hi Angela. Thanks for stopping by!
Marriage goes through phases, depending on the roles and responsibilities of life at the time.
When we were in the throes of child-rearing, there was little time and energy for passion. We did manage to squeak in some together time here and there and that was very important! Just being able to lie in bed together at the end of a long day to talk about why we were doing all of this helped. Laughing. Feeling the joy and gratitude. Making time for those crucial date nights when we could get out and be a couple. Did you ever see "Date Night" with Tina Fey and Steve Carrel? So true and funny.
Now that our children are adults, we look back at the flurry of activity and recognize how lucky we were to experience it all. We were exhausted and stressed so much of the time but it really was a privilege to be parents.
Now, we are in our 50s and still young enough to appreciate the past, embrace the presents and hope for the future. And passion? We're still madly in love with each other. Believe me, if you love each other, the passion is there. It just falls down the to-do and priority list when you have kids. But the passion still smolders like a burning ember, ready to re-ignite when you fuel it.