There are women who were destined to experience life in other ways. Why must we judge that?
Because ' society ' has competed for thousands of years thusly:
Men compete with money, power, wealth, land ownership, conquest of ' your enemies ' and violence.
Women compete with beauty and babies which leads to wealth and honor.
This momentum has a long, sick and bloody history.
Many women have babies just to satiate their human pride.
I'm glad I've had a mother who loved me, but it took too much out of her, so I chose not to have children of my own.
We live in a very, very sick world, and the destain and judgement that your daughter and you feel is very embedded.
I know that this is weird, but sometimes I wish they would blow this place up so we could start again.
The entire middle-east conflict(s) can be summed up by beginning with ' the pride ' that the bondswoman had over Sarah when she brought forth Ishmael before Issac.
I despise the fact that we are social animals and have social needs.
All it leads to is pain and hurt ' when we are not accepted '.
I think it is stupid all of these unwritten social ' shoulds '.
Look where it has gotten us.
-- Burt B.