Debbie,
As with most choices one makes that is not on the road of "shoulds", people have a bad habit of judging and making negative comments without really knowing a person and what is right and good for that person.
Her making that comment was selfish!!
As Nancy wrote..."There is nothing selfish in not having a child, but having one or more when you or/and your partner is not ready for one or/and do not want one is selfish."
Last edited by Dr. Hershey-MH; 05/04/13 09:54 AM.