I really feel stuck. My g/f of 8 years broke up with me. She was away at school, and we had been arguing because she basically ignores me, and gives all of her attention to her friends. So much so, that she nearly lost her scholarship because she was partying so much. I asked why she dumped me. She said it's because her friends don't care how screwed up she is, they acept it and don't encourage her to be better, and that's how she likes it. Needless to say she has mental health issues.
Anyway, I said I would be her friend as long as she wasn't dating anyone. I said I don't want to be broken up, I want to be with you, and I can't watch you love someone else. It hurts too much. If you meet someone please let me know. She agreed.I thought there was hope for us because she texted me, called me. She was flirty. Had cute names for me. I thought we were going to get back together. She led me to think so. Then I get a text from a stranger that says she has had a new g/f for a while, and ids hiding her, and contacting me when the new g/f isn't around. I called her on it, and she admitted to it. I told her her lying hurt more than her having a new g/f. She gave me an insincere apology. She told me she had to move on. She is dating someone who is actually quite a dangerous person.I broke off all contact. Is no contact the way to get her back? I won't give up on her. No lectures please. Just tell me how to get her back. If she is sorry, I will take her.I just need the best stragey. she is insecure, and stubborn, and always takes the easy way out.