What is it about wives that make us want to mold our mates into becoming better men? It starts before we walk down the aisle when we choose to see the potential instead of the reality.

Wanting to Change Him

That is a good question. Here we are so consumed with what we feel is ideal in our men, that we turn a blind eye to their imperfections until we succeed in our quest to make them better. By the time we open our eyes and reality sets in, we found that we have invested so much time with them that we must either accept defeat or realize that his imperfections were what attracted us to them in the first place. In most cases anyway.