Why do you think people have marriage problems?

When we marry, our love feels invincible. What happens over time?

Can you share what has happened to you or others you have observed?

There is no way for people to know each other completely before we marry simply because people change over time as a result of life situations. Sometimes, those changes are for the better. I'd like to think that couples can influence each other to grow.

Sometimes no matter how well you treat your partner, if he/she has a mind to they will cheat on you. There's no way we can watch our partners 24/7, and who would want to? Sometimes people who already have flaws in their character that we did not see, change for the worse as the years go by. Wisdom does not always come with age for some folk. That's life. Nothing stays the same. Sometimes that's a positive thing and other times it's a negative thing. Nature has a way of keeping the Balance! Margaret

Margaret, no truer words have been spoken regarding relationships!

Margaret.....I totally agree. I experienced what you mentioned and I believe that you can never really know someone completely.

What are other marital challenges not listed in the poll?