I have a problem I need help with. I work with a girl that is gay which is something very few people know (nobody we work with knows) and I am not supposed to know either so she doesn't know that I know. Anyways, I really like her but 1) I don't know how to flirt with a girl 2) she is a shift manager and I just work there so technically shes my boss so that complicates it 3) How do I tell if she is even interested in me 4) how do I let her know that I am into her without coming out and saying it. I am all for subtle. I don't wanna put myself out there 100% especially because if she doesn't feel the same, I still have to work for her.