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#794771 - 11/30/12 07:06 PM
Re: Random Thoughts
[Re: Les Ex-BellaOnline Ed.]
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Chipmunk
Registered: 10/16/10
Posts: 1228
Loc: Michoacan, Mexico
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Are all CULTS of a religious orientation? Perhaps not necessarily. The following are some traits/characteristics that a cult leader may exhibit:
1. Has a grandiose idea of who they are and what they can achieve. 2. Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, or brilliance. 3. Demands blind unquestioned obedience. 4. Requires excessive admiration from followers and outsiders. 5. Has a sense of entitlement - expecting to be treated special at all times. 6. Is arrogant, self-centered and haughty in their behavior or attitude. 7. Has an exaggerated sense of power (entitlement) that allows them to bend rules in their own best interest. 8. Is hypersensitive to how they are seen or perceived by others. 9. Devalues others as being inferior, incapable, or not worthy. 10. Has ignored the needs of others. 11. Is frequently boastful of accomplishments. 12. Needs to be the center of attention. 13. Doesn�t seem to listen well to needs of others, communication is usually one-way in the form of dictates. 14. Haughtiness, grandiosity, and the need to be controlling is part of their personality. 15. When criticized tends to lash out not just with anger but with rage. 16. Acts imperious at times, not wishing to know what others think or desire. 17. Is superficially charming. 18. Habitually puts down others as inferior and only they are superior. 19. Is deeply offended when there are perceived signs of boredom, being ignored or of being slighted. 20. Treats others with contempt and arrogance. 21. Is constantly assessing for those who are a threat or those who revere them. 22. The word �I� dominates their conversations. Is oblivious to how often they reference themselves. 23. Hates to be embarrassed or fail publicly. 24. Doesn�t seem to feel guilty for anything they have done wrong nor do they sincerely apologize for their actions. 25. Rigid, unbending, or insensitive describes how these people think. 26. Tries to control others in what they think and write. 27. Doesn�t think there is anything wrong with themselves� in fact sees themselves as the ideal. 28. Seems to be highly dependent on tribute and adoration and will often fish for compliments.
Note: The above list is an edited and modified version of an article that appeared in "Psycholology Today," 8/25/2012)
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Les Shulman Ex-Mex/AthAg/Birds Ed.
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#794800 - 12/01/12 01:45 AM
Re: Random Thoughts
[Re: Les Ex-BellaOnline Ed.]
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Chipmunk
Registered: 09/09/11
Posts: 1546
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Love it Les !  !! Sounds a lot like my not-self or lesser self or carnal mind or ego or whatever. Megalomania -- yeah.. Love it or lose it.. one way or another we all have varying degrees of this. Here's a monkey wrench into the works: The historical Jesus would fit that description to a T. Here's the bridge to our collective "Narcissistic Personality Disorder: http: //samvak.tripod.com/journal79.html#jesus
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#794834 - 12/01/12 04:01 PM
Re: Random Thoughts
[Re: Lestie - ContainerGardens]
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Chipmunk
Registered: 09/09/11
Posts: 1546
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Hi Lestie, No. A Deist. Did a lot of occult < simply that which is hidden > research and searching... Kinda freaked me out.. So now I just roll with the flow. I know you know the entomology of occult -- However, in the US it is stigmatized. I don't know if that is a double entendre -- but, hey I T.R.Y. < Theos Rule You >. G.O.D. is kinda neat -- < Geometry Of Divinity >. Who's Divinity ? Why, yours and mine of course and everyone else's of course i.e. those that have a spark -- I'm sure you have run across those who have none. There is a whole branch of 'heaven' that works with atheists and agnostics. I like atheists and agnostics. They're just tired of all the BS that's been crammed down our throat with fear mongering. Way Cool !  !! Cheers, Burt B. Blessed Be -- yeah the goddess Oh, and God Love Mr. Shuttleworth and Ubuntu !! I use it all day, every day.
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