logo

Channel List
Beauty & Self
Books & Music
Career
Computers
Education
Family
Food & Wine
Health & Fitness
Hobbies & Crafts
Home & Garden
Money
News & Politics
Relationships
Religion & Spirituality
Sports
Travel & Culture
TV & Movies
Safety
We take forum safety very seriously here at BellaOnline. Please be sure to read through our Forum Guidelines. Let us know if you have any questions or comments!
Newest Members
Orchid, bonding99, davidearly, SusieGG, OSTSEE
58341 Registered Users
Forum Statistics
Forums417
Topics119,310
Posts846,634
Members58,341
Most Online410
Feb 3rd, 2018
Top Posters(30 Days)
Sponsor
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
#782528 - 09/14/12 03:04 AM New Article - Taking A Chance On Being In Love  
Joined: Jul 2008
Posts: 44
Kate Relationships Editor Offline
BellaOnline Editor
Kate Relationships Editor  Offline
BellaOnline Editor
Newbie

Joined: Jul 2008
Posts: 44
Being in Love is a noteworthy Matter of the Heart that is certainly worth mentioning. The question is however, is Being In Love worth Taking A Chance on getting your heart broken. You just can�t pay too much attention to Matters of the Heart now can you? Taking A Chance On Being In Love

#787508 - 10/12/12 08:22 AM Re: New Article - Taking A Chance On Being In Love [Re: Kate Relationships Editor]  
Joined: Oct 2012
Posts: 32
mark laverdiere Offline
Newbie
mark laverdiere  Offline
Newbie

Joined: Oct 2012
Posts: 32
Hi, Kate! That's a fine way of looking at it. I still believe that falling in love is always taking a chance at something one is never an expert at. The feeling of falling is already a leap into either something or nothing. We guys tend to hope it's nothing at the onset, but when we've found someone we really love, then we start hoping it's something worth fighting for. Stay blessed!

#787513 - 10/12/12 12:09 PM Re: New Article - Taking A Chance On Being In Love [Re: Kate Relationships Editor]  
Joined: Sep 2012
Posts: 2,200
loongdragon Offline
Koala
loongdragon  Offline
Koala

Joined: Sep 2012
Posts: 2,200
Mont Tremblant,quebec Can
Dear Kate,

First the link did not work,not lucky.As far as relationships, falling in love ,like the expression goes,one gets attached ,
craves for tenderness,non solitude or companionship.

However,craving leads to dependance,then to interrogation,finally
to suffering.

I beleive the Universe will lead me to where it is good for me,
with the right people ,at the right time.

I got divorced 42 years ago,suffered a lot.In those 42 years I have had relationships with women for about a total of about 10 years always ending in suffering.So for me living alone,has become a way of life.I have suffered enough in my life.Now I live
a blissfull life.When people ask me:what do you do in life?
My answer is :i am on permanent holidays.Far from being rich,
I live within my means ,and enjoy reading ,which I used to dislike.

Life gives people choices!

with respect

loongdragon


loong

#788301 - 10/18/12 03:48 AM Re: New Article - Taking A Chance On Being In Love [Re: loongdragon]  
Joined: Aug 2012
Posts: 35
freeatlast Offline
Newbie
freeatlast  Offline
Newbie

Joined: Aug 2012
Posts: 35
Sorry for your suffering Loongdragon. Don't give up. There is someone out there for everyone. But, if you are satisfied being alone that is okay. I believe God has answered my prayers in helping me get out of a bad relationship and finding a healthy one. I pray that He will bring you peace and contentment. God bless!

#788618 - 10/19/12 11:01 PM Re: New Article - Taking A Chance On Being In Love [Re: Kate Relationships Editor]  
Joined: Sep 2012
Posts: 2,200
loongdragon Offline
Koala
loongdragon  Offline
Koala

Joined: Sep 2012
Posts: 2,200
Mont Tremblant,quebec Can
Dear Freeatlast,

Thank you,for your nice post.However ,There is no place in my life for being unhappy.

Today while reading a book ,I came to a section ,that made me think of you.I will write it down :

Suffering,does not just refer to impermanence in life, ,no single attainment,possession, or life situation can ultimitely bring us lasting happiness.We might experience periods of happiness BASED on these things,but because that kind of happiness is dependent on external phenomenom,it will eventually end.True lasting happiness is only found through the realisation
of attaining total detachment ,of those fetters,creating our momentary happiness.

Loongdragon
Living a blissfull life.


loong

#788635 - 10/20/12 03:36 AM Re: New Article - Taking A Chance On Being In Love [Re: loongdragon]  
Joined: Aug 2012
Posts: 35
freeatlast Offline
Newbie
freeatlast  Offline
Newbie

Joined: Aug 2012
Posts: 35
Hi Loongdragon, So true. Our happiness comes from within. Unfortunately, we let outside influences sometimes control this. You have a great attitude! Thanks.


Moderated by  Kate Relationships Editor 

Brand New Posts
Who wants to work from home?
by Nancy Roussy. Small Office/Home Office
02/21/18 12:28 AM
2018: On this day . . .
by Mona - Astronomy. Astronomy
02/20/18 10:16 PM
Valeska Grisebach's Film Western
by Angela - Drama Movies. Drama Movies
02/20/18 09:32 PM
Beloit International Film Fest Begins This Weekend
by Angela - Drama Movies. Drama Movies
02/20/18 09:18 PM
Sidney Poitier Turns 91 Today
by Angela - Drama Movies. Classic Films
02/20/18 09:04 PM
What are you looking forward to today?
by Nancy Roussy. Self Development
02/20/18 07:45 PM
Where are you and how is the weather?
by Nancy Roussy. Inspiration
02/20/18 07:43 PM
What will you do today?
by Nancy Roussy. Inspiration
02/20/18 07:41 PM
What's your Typical Daily Menu?
by Nancy Roussy. Low Carb
02/20/18 07:34 PM
Did you dream last night?
by Nancy Roussy. Dreams
02/20/18 07:30 PM
Register to Post!
Want to post? For security reasons you need to Register as a Forum Member. It's quick, easy and free!
Forum Activities
Book Clubs
Trivia Contests
Who's Online Now
0 registered members (), 147 guests, and 4 spiders.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Sponsor


| About BellaOnline | Privacy Policy | Advertising | Become an Editor |
Website copyright © 2018 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.


Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.6.0
Page Time: 1.081s Queries: 14 (0.020s) Memory: 2.0287 MB (Peak: 2.1293 MB) Zlib disabled. Server Time: 2018-02-21 03:26:33 UTC