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#783763 - 09/23/12 06:11 PM New Article - Serial Liars - Repeater Cheaters
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#784143 - 09/25/12 09:07 PM Re: New Article - Serial Liars - Repeater Cheaters [Re: Kate Relationships Editor]
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Serial liars...

An interesting topic. Lying in it's simplest form is, really just cheating in general. It's getting your way w/half truths, omissions and flat out fiction.

Whether it's cheating in the form of romance or friends and family, what you really need to pay attention to are sympathetic statements, which in the end don't make sense.

Basically THEIR needs are met while you're standing there holding a torch that never made it worth the effort to ignite it for the person.


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#808996 - 03/01/13 02:22 AM Re: New Article - Serial Liars - Repeater Cheaters [Re: Kate Relationships Editor]
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Elleise, I married a liar and cheater. He fooled me good for 48 years, but then he fooled everyone his whole life long. How did I eventually find out about his lieing ways? Well just over two years ago my husband had an unrecognised stroke in his right frontal lobe which has actually changed his personality. When I asked him a little over two years ago 'Have you been cheating on me?' he could not help but answer 'yes.' Well over these last two years I have found out much more than I bargained for, but I'm not sorry. I'd rather know the full truth. The pain he's put me through though will take a while longer to work out. However, I must admit I am finding it easier to cope with now. Charmers like my husband are very good at lieing without blinking an eyelid. The damage they do however, can be devasting for the victim and their families. Personally I believe that the Cosmos has brought this to pass. That I was meant to travel this path with the people who came into my life. As for my husband, we've been together for many eons in one way or another. We're definetly not strangers, because the moment our eyes met, we knew instantly that we were together again! It's just another learning path for my Soul, my Spirit. Life can throw you lots of surprises, some negative, but then many positives as well. We choose the next path to take so that we can grow in Wisdom, and become stronger in Spirit through many different experiences. Me I learnt to listen to my mother for she warned me never to trust a man 100%. My husband he's learnt that lieing never pays in the end, and his unexpected Stroke was the wake up call. I also learnt that my bi-sexuality followed me to this life. Truly in the scheme of the Cosmos there is no sex differences, just energy filled with thoughts and ideas! Blessings Margaret

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#811999 - 03/19/13 04:45 AM Re: New Article - Serial Liars - Repeater Cheaters [Re: Maggie25]
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Maggie, that's quite a journey!

You don't always get to hear the end of the story or beginning, I suppose, depending how you look at it. You're right though, it's the resolve that has the greatest impact. While it's still in "discretion" mode there's so much uncertainty and everything you'll put your energy into will in one fashion or another be a lie unless you pool that energy entirely into yourself. That can be difficult if you love the person who happens to be lieing to you.

Personally, I feel strongly, intuition plays a strong part in knowing something's off. On the other hand, it can be an insight into something we'd rather not know or acknowledge if we do.

I agree as well Universally, Spiritually, attraction to another being...well, predominately I think it just comes down to whether or not a person gets you, makes you smile, laugh and grow in this journey of life smile
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