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#781525 - 09/07/12 01:35 AM
Re: Animal Abuse and What to Do
[Re: Debra // Dogs Editor]
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Tiger
Registered: 07/22/10
Posts: 6412
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Hi Diana:
What I found while living in the apartment I had for 14 years before moving in with my ex, you would get involved and then get in trouble with the person you tried to help with calling 911. I saw many people get threatened or worst in my old complex = yes in the ghetto/lol.
Now I have never witnessed child or animal abuse, but did use to witness "women" being beat up. The last time I got involved, witnessed one of my neighbors being through out her front window on to the grass from inside her apartment.
Ms. Helpful (me/lol) calls 911 - cops come, and of course you know the routine (like my mom was when my dad was alive and beat the mess out of her EVERY day) - did not press changes.
Thank goodness I had called in anonymous.
LOL, then a few days later - guess who comes knocking on my door to call the cops back. Yep, you guessed it - the same lady. I did not get involved this time around - told her some lie about my phone being out. Asked her why she did not call herself - the usual excuse, no phone. Oh well...
Not to be mean, but I grew up around this and this was one of several reasons why I choose to leave a 4 year involvement I had with a man I thought was "healthy" - took one time of putting his hands on me to "wake me" up big time. There were other issues like how he mistreated (would not quite call it abuse) Jeremiah/my little doggie friend - before ran away.
The signs are there sometimes and not.
With animal and child abuse, it is up to us to get involved. I would, but anonymously for fear of someone telling the abuser I did and them killing me. Yes, it happens every day.
Talk soon,
Edited by Angela J. Shirley (09/07/12 01:37 AM)
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