I am now married to a wonderful man. I was allowed to divorce my extremely abusive ex-husband in 2010. I have been watching my back for two years now. Problems that he has created keep popping up. I have been kidnapped by my ex-husband after we were religiously divorced,he tried kidnapping me again in 2010, in broad daylight, even though he knew I was married to somebody else. He attacked me in front of my husband (I told my husband not to interfere)my ex locked him out when my husband was trying to get me out of the situation. I talked to the FBI,but they said if anything happens call. I am afraid to go outside, I am afraid to be by myself. I am happily married now. I want the fear, the fear and mistrust of people and their voices, night terrors, and anxiety to go away. When will it?

Is your ex-husband mental disorder? Leave the place you are living now with your husband and do not let your ex-husband know where are you going to.

Not diagnosed,but I think so. We have moved, but I think I was either followed or he was on the same flight to a different place. I heard his voice distinctly at the gate,I did not want to get made, so I did not look directly to figure out, that is why I am still paranoid.

did you ever seek help for yourself? Maybe if you go to counseling and work through your issues, that will help. Have you actually seen your ex at your new location? Take self defense classes and pray. God, through Jesus, will save us all if we ask. Only Jesus can give you peace when you have struggles. Go to a church in your community. Make friends, join a group and enjoy your new relationship with your husband. My ex doesn't sound as bad as yours, but he was verbally abusive and some physical. It can take an emotional toll on you. I left 16 mos ago from a 25 yr marriage and am still going to counseling. I believe that God surrounded me with people to give me the courage and strength to get out of the situation. God bless you and keep you safe.