How is it you'd have or want to be friends with women who beat up their husbands? I've been in an abusive relationship and I wouldn't spend the time of day, let alone be friends with anyone who beat someone else. They may hide it at first but once you know why stick around?
I'm certain there are women who do. I've personally not encountered them. I have encountered women who fight back. Me? I'd just leave. It's a waste of energy.
My experience has been the 2 abusers I've known, in both cases told their friends I was crazy, abused them, and put the marks on my body myself. I'll never spend another wasted moment on someone like that again. They're cowards and use the ploy they're abused to shift blame.
It works sometimes because most women don't like to brag about being abused. They're silent, embarrassed and for awhile paralyzed by what to do if anything and feel hopeless.
Once the truth comes out and they're willing to get help, the tables usually turn and doors begin to open for them.
Edited by Elleise - Clairvoyance (06/30/12 03:58 AM)