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After messing around with the five and one year goals threads for a few years, i don't think those are helping as much as they could. Even a year is a big chunk and my life changes it seems several times a year. If my life was more stable i think yearly goals would be more useful for me.
So I was thinking for me and perhaps for others, quarterly or seasonal goals might be a better place to start. It might be worth trying this.
What are your quarter year goals?
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I'll start. Over the next three and four months, I'd like to have these things done -
have food stamps Make the small trailer safe for the road organized my lean-to Sold my recyclables sold some silver have utilities help with catholic charities back on track with NACOG have had a mammogram everything off my huge porch (it looks like something from hoarders) everything out of the rv, inside of RV cleaned firepit made have a financial plan for spaying my kittens before they become fertile
I think that is doable. These are high priority things that need to get done. I think my next step is breaking these things down into unintimidating components.
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Done - firepit mammogram doing - utility help (call back monday and make appt) spaying the girls (call vets monday and get prices) bring in one load of recycling this week, bring coupon for extra 10%) baby steps in the lean-to (some sections cleared already out, take a 'before' photo, think about getting ground cover in there, fold up tarps so they are out of the way, bring more recycables out) Next - food stamps - make date to go in and apply again That's as far as i can take this timeline right now.
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Dear Jilly -
That is awesome that you're making progress! Absolutely a year list provides direction, but the short term list provides actionable items to give you specific steps to move forward with! Those are great!
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Hi Everyone! Jilly, I hear what you're saying, not all of us are long term goal people. So what we can do is what you're doing, breaking the goals down into actionable items. I wrote about this recently What's Your Task Type?
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Huh. Setting my goals by season? That is truly an awesome idea.
One of my (long-term, haha) goals is to stop procrastinating. It's funny on sitcoms, but not in my everyday life when I have so much to accomplish each day. I really dig this idea Jilly - thx for sharing!
Keep us posted on yours... in the meantime I need to think of which goals I can work on this winter...
"I don't think of all the misery, but of the beauty that still remains." Anne FrankRaynaDepression Site
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I'd like to have long term goals but with all the crazy that my DH throws at me, I can't even plan to be in one state or another past a few months.
This is why I am trying to have my own place, completely independent of anyone else or their timelines or ideas. The hope is that I can get stable enough to have a realistic chance that any goal i set from one year out will actually happen. Otherwise I just get upset when a year goes by and i look at the things I optimistically thought i might do.
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Leah, that is a very interesting article. Thank you for linking to it for me.
I don't know what kind of task satisfaction i get. How do i figure that out? I don't think either long term or methodical is exactly me.
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Rayna, please do list your seasonal goals! Just start with something. You can always change it as you go along.
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This method is already taking some of the anxiety away re: not getting my garage cleaned out by 2012. I might still make it, but if I don't, it's okay. Over the next three months, I'd like to: Redesign my daughter's homeschooling schedule
Obtain (make or buy) a new bookshelf and add it to the living room
Write 6 articles in advance
Organize my garage
Give @ least half of what's in my garage away on FreeCycle or to family/friendsThere. I feel pretty good about those being totally doable. I've actually made a longer list for myself and tacked it to my bulletin board. It's quite motivating. Woohoo - that was fun!
Last edited by Rayna - Virus & Spam; 12/05/11 04:56 PM.
"I don't think of all the misery, but of the beauty that still remains." Anne FrankRaynaDepression Site
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