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Hey everyone! Btw I'm new here! So there's this girl! I've been into her for quite some time and she's just expressed her feelings for me too and I can't get her out of my head and it's been such a messed up year. Here's the catch: I've never been with a girl b4. I've just recently accepted the fact that I'm bi. She knows this and its such a complicated story with us lol....but my question for you guys is: What does it mean when: I think about her all the time, kissing her, holding her, and I'm okay with her doing sexual stuff to me...but when I think about doing it to her...I kinda get grossed out..? All nigh I thougt about being with her and sleeping next to her...someone help :( Am i just scared? Thanks guys!

you are scared, but it's ok. you just need to get over it and tell her that you love her. i'm sure you will succeed !

I think you're just curious to be honest.

I have the opportunity with what I do to share intimate views on topics that might not be so comfortable sharing in a more public fashion.

And what I hear and agree with really is that men and women, find beauty, beautiful. When there's an inward connection and they find the outside appealing, the line between genders isn't as black and white. So there's confusion. They are attracted basically and curious and desire more of that feeling, explore.

You're probably more comfortable with tradition, but find this person beautiful on the inside as well as the outside.

I've heard many women say they find the female body, more attractive than a males. They just do, like a piece of art.

I think I agree with Elleise. It probably is just curiosity. You will never know though until you try.lol.I also agree with the female body being more attractive than the males. It's just something about the female body that makes you feel more sensual I guess would be the word. I am married (to a man) and I still find myself more attracted to females. I don't know what it is but as long as my husband understands it's alright with me.

Any updates on your situation? It seems like you're curious but also confused at the two opposing sides within you.

you know why its happening because you are in first time with any girls it happens with me too I was just thinking about all the time all the day but after 15-20 days it all goes normal for i was so scared that was being happening with me, i didn't know, but i felt good.

You may be brave to be honest, and solve this problem with her together!

it is just happening with you for the first time as you never have been with a girl and hence, this kind of situation is a really greek to you but don't worry go ahead .. tell your true desires to your love and everything will be fine soon...as time and experience makes every person perfect.

its not a big issue yar every one know that love is the part of our life. dont get so hasitated be frank and tell him that you love him.