A strapless dress is a great way to show off your shoulders and neck. Having the dress tailored to your figure, will alleviate the popover effect. If the bodice section of the dress is extremely tight it forces things up and over, so a good fit is a must. The other hing I have recommended to brides lately is a bolero jacket. It just covers the area you are talking about , yet gives you the option to take it off and go strapless. If you need some ideas, just email me and would be glad to point you in the right direction... weddings@bellaonline.com That goes for anyone who needs help. I am always there for you