Well, that's irritating. I can't send you a private message.
Here are some resources that you might want to read. You can e-mail me by clicking on my ADD signature link, and that will take you to my site. Click on my name at the top of the page. At the end of my bio is my direct e-mail. You are always welcome to post in our ADD forum.
I did not mention the discrepancy in your oldest daughter's scores on the first post. There are huge differences in some of those scores! She is so bright that she might not have problems in school now. However, with that much of a discrepancy in her scores, she might also have a learning disability. Please don't let her get into distress before getting help. I've seen that many times, even with my own kids, both of whom are bright with ADD. I have had many students over the years who are extremely bright and have learning disabilities. It is frustrating for the child.
I have reviews of all of these books on the ADD site.
If you have not read them, please get copies of these books:
How to Reach and Teach Students with ADD/ADHD-Sandra Rief
Delivered from Distraction-Dr. Edward Hallowell
Superparenting for ADD-Dr. Edward Hallowell
These books contain the information that you need to develop strong advocacy skills for your daughter.
Here are some articles:
School Success and ADD ADD and the IEP