BellaOnline Forums Travel and Culture Native American New Article - Finding a Teacher

Listening is primary, but sometimes we can start a conversation with tact and respect.

The next time you see this Elder. Talk with her when she has a free moment. Let her know you have watched and admired her work, but don't have the resources to be a collector. Once she knows you value her artistry, she might open up. Who knows where that could lead?

I can't remember if I previously posted about this or not, but it's a good example of how a simple question can begin a lesson.

I was helping in the Tribal kitchen with Clan Mother and a Council member. We were chatting about family, siblings, etc. and I was listening carefully, but this question just came out in normal voice and tone. "How long does it take to forgive?" I was thinking it, just didn't realize I was speaking it.

It did somewhat apply to our light conversation. I don't know what surprised me more, that it popped out while I was being so careful to listen, or the instantaneous reply in perfect unison from both Elders. "Green Corn!"

My brain was screaming "What is that?" but with much will power, I demurely replied that I didn't know what that was. That one question during a casual conversation has lead to a new path of learning about both the Cherokee and Creek Green Corn festivities and Ceremony. This is considered the New Year for both Tribes.

Following my own advice, I'm learning as much as I can prior to asking permission to attend. This is not an event open to the public and being allowed to attend is an honor. There's not much information on line, but I've managed to glean a small basket of information from listening.

For many Tribes Green Corn is next month. This is a very important gathering and timed to the corn harvest, so it varies by region. This is also a very private time as the Tibe gathers to celebrate the new year. For some, it is limited to Tribal members only. As a student, I am respectful of that privacy and did not ask. In showing my respect, another opportunity to learn and experience may have become available.

It happens like this sometimes. I was trying to learn one thing and got redirected to another path which may prove equally rewarding, or perhaps more so.