I am so glad you had the courage to post your dream. It's hard isn't it? That's why I like it here. You can post what you get about as private yet connecting in conversation with others as you can get. I think in this line of work you need that to bounce things off of eachother
If you are just now working with your feelings and dreams, you know they don't really hold back any punches, lol. You're not always going to be "PC" or be able to tell people what they want to hear. It's just not possible, sadly. I'd say a majority of the time you may not have what people want to hear or maybe looking for but it doesn't mean it's necessarily bad, just different.
There are a few things in the dream that I've been having as well. I don't want this to get long but I know it will, lol. I hate that but there are just so many details.
First, I'm trying to sort this all out but I feel people close to the situation know more than they are letting on. By that I mean like relatives? Whoever Phylicia was visiting, it doesn't feel like home like she knew them very well. Opposite of how I would go visit my extended family. I can't get past that. But it does feel planned, like she didn't just hop on a plane and go there just because. So, that's a wierd feeling for me. I think the short haired woman in your dream represents the mother.
There must be tip-lines so I'm wondering if you can call in the dump site just to see/rule it out basically with search dogs.
Within the family I feel there are others that "don't want to get involved." i don't understand this AT ALL.
I feel drugs is in there somewhere like family members still use them (no judments...I don't really care...but reality then becomes distorted...more confident or people close to the situation?
I feel worse for phylicia than anything i'm also getting panic.
But I keep wanting or feeling the need to go back to the mother. I don't know why outside the obvious.
I'm wondering if the bridge is litteral in representation in the dream or symbollic. I too got the image of connecting coastlines of some kind.