Oh honey! I am a 50 year old mom of 4! I suffered through a miscarriage before I had my first son. I thought I'd never get pregnant again. I did. And that pregnancy was difficult, he was one of a twin, and I lost one of them. Alot of people just don't know the PAIN that miscarriage can bring, the tears, and the PURE HEARTACHE. I would wake up crying and go to bed crying. I suggest that you surround yourself with understanding friends, understanding family and get a GOOD (I said GOOD counselor) to get through this difficult time. My own mother didn't understand, which was hard. Look at it this way, you WERE pregnant, and you WILL be again, if that's what you want. I know that nothing will EVER replace the BABY you lost, and you need to mourn that loss now. But things WILL matter again, you just need to hang on tight, and if you have a spiritual connection somewhere, I suggest you hang on tight there too. I will send up a special prayer for you, your husband and your little one too. I am soo sorry, I DO know what you are going through. And I am sorry. But the sun will come out again, promise.
