I use wash out suave (always been the best for me), and air dry.
Then in the am, when it's looking all crazy, I use a suave water mix, and spray it to wet down again, and a little frizz serum (naturally curly in a high humidity climate- think bozo)
Then I comb it out, and tussle it up
And it looks, and feels as close to glam and gorgeous as I will ever get