1st - happy 50th b-day!
I think it is kind of cold to not do anything for your spouses b-day. I'm sorry that happened to you. I would have been so hurt.
while saving money is great, she couldn't spare a few bucks to buy you a cake or make you your favorite dinner?!!?? since she hates to spend money, you should point out "frisky time" would be cost free!
I dont know, maybe she has crazy menopause hormones right now. I know several women who really had some strange behavior changes at the age. (that doesn't excuse her dissing your birthday - just a thought on why she may acting that way)
what would have happened if YOU shrugged off her b-day?
Last edited by Marie751; 11/24/09 09:10 PM.