I'm actually doing very well. BUT I am so angry right now; my father not only abused my brother and I, he was a sexual predator. Which, of course, means that he assaulted others. And, over his "career," Ithere's no way of knowing exactly how much damage he did. About 2 years ago, one of my best friends suddenly broke off all contact with me. Changed her phone number, just dropped off the face of the earth as far as I was concerned. What happened, I find out recently, is that someone told her about an incident involving my father (the person knew the connection between her and me). So although I wrote her and explained as much as possible, she will have nothing to do with me. Period. She has NO CLUE what she is doing. She's playing right into his hands; he derived pleasure from scaring the wits out of me, and also from making me hurt in any way possible. (he and his mother killed my cat once) So here he is; 7 years in the grave, and he just won another round. Demolishing my relationship with her would have made him happy for a month. (just need to vent; this thing makes me so mad I can hardly describe it.)