There's an old saying: God will help your garden grow, but first you must plant the seeds. Take all steps necessary to ensure your children's safety- and that means relocation. Trust in the lord to provide, but start packing.
Now, where to go? Not to any relative HE knows about. Choose a State you've never been to. I know this sounds harsh, but God gave you a precious gift- your kids, and it's your responsibility to keep them out of harm's way.