I used to used tanning beds and booths and I used to bask in the sun with the intention of getting a tan. I saw my skin change after I started getting tanned so I stopped. I will not use any booth or beds. I don't consider them safe at any exposure - too close and too strong.
When I start feeling really pale, I use spray on tan. Thank goodness they don't turn us orange any more.
When we go on vacation - to a sunny location - I do enjoy the sun but I don't do the extended exposure any more.
Last year, I went to Florida and used Arbonne Made in the Shade. It is a self-tanner with an 18(I think) SPF. It goes on like nourishing oil. I got the best tan I have ever had and my skin didn't feel dry.