I finally did choose a theme for my blog, which you can see at
EZBoomerLiving I went through a lot of trials and tribulations tho! A friend helped me with the HTML to change the header and customize it a bit. I'm not used to working in the confines of a theme. When I did my website, I designed it, for good or bad, all myself. But I could manipulate everything about the look of it.
It took me some time but I'm wading through it.