Awwww. I told my sister how my son and I had picked out some dishes that we both liked. She just laughed and said when I got a daughter-in-law she was going to throw all my old **** out anyway.
At first I saw the possible truth in her flip remark, but then I remembered trying to get the kid to give up a 10-year-old backpack for a new one. Ha! Future d-i-l will have her hands full if she's trying to get said offspring to throw away anything he's sentimental about.
For years, I had my wedding hat on the wall in my bedroom. It looked very pretty, I thought. Then I put it away to keep it a little while longer, but I don't expect it to become a treasured family heirloom. We carry a lot of baggage in our lives. Sometimes a little less is good.
I guess I'm sentimental too. The things we have that will remind our loved ones of us when we've passed on---or better, when we give those things to them when we're still living---become more important to them with time. Sometimes they just need to settle in their own places to be able to really appreciate having them around.