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#457932 - 10/09/08 09:17 AM
Re: Who Won't You Take To The Desert Island?
[Re: C.C.]
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Parakeet
Registered: 01/10/07
Posts: 1005
Loc: USA
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Cop with a gun No guns on the island. That gives one person a huge "power" advantage over everyone else. Also, I think the presence of a gun might create an atmosphere of distrust/fear--not good if you want people working together for the good of all.
Pregnant teenager with HIV I don't think it would be wise to introduce an incurable disease to the island. Also, both the teen and the baby will (at least eventually) be a drain on resources.
Ex-Convict Not all ex-cons are bad people, of course, but there's a chance an ex-con might be a hardened criminal. If so, that's not someone I'd want to hang out with.
The cop and the teen were sort of "no-brainers" for me, but the ex-con I wasn't sure about, for several reasons. First, to survive prison you have to be tough, and that toughness and tenacity might be a great help on a deserted island. Second, some "criminal" skills/knowledge (being able to steal, kill, etc.) might be *really* helpful to have when you're in survivalist mode. If the ex-con were reformed and cooperative, I'd keep him/her on the island and go with someone else.
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#459065 - 10/13/08 10:16 PM
Re: Who Won't You Take To The Desert Island?
[Re: Nancy - Baby Names Editor]
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Parakeet
Registered: 02/13/08
Posts: 988
Loc: Vermont, USA
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This is a most fascinating topic!
As I read each post, I realized that it was really all about labels. The way a person is labeled truly colors each other people's perception, then judgement of them, and their personal value. If the person is labeled "A," "B," or "C," etc. it's easy to assume any number of things about them - depending on your personal filtering system, life experiences, etc.
For instance, if a woman is labeled "prostitute," she may also be any number of other things. She is somebodies "daughter;" could be a "sister," "mother," "aunt," "artist," "singer," "poet," etc. On both the Montel Show, and Dr. Phil more recently, they covered the new Human Trade Ring that is going on in America right now. These guys kidnap, then sell girls and boys online to anyone who wants to buy them, or put them on the street, and they become instant, unwilling prostitutes. Would it be fair then, to include one of them in the list - the rest of the story unknown?
And I wonder why we got to know that the pregnant teen had HIV, but we didn't know whether the prostitute was infected with anything. As human beings making judgement on others, sometimes we are faced with making assumptions about them, sometimes based on fear, sometimes on benefit of the doubt.
Sometimes we get to choose how we are labeled in society, and sometimes we don't. Like, as a multidimensional human being, if your "label" were on the list, what would it be, and would other people agree with your personal "label?" How interesting to put a value on a particular label, then stand in line to be accepted or rejected based on that one label...
Shay
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